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HABITS I HAVE TO GIVE UP IN 2019

Well, hello there. Happy New Year!

I’m glad you decided to click on this post because it’s going to be juicy, if I do say so myself. It’s a new year, I’m sure you know the drill … Set new goals, try to adapt new habits the first few weeks of the month but then nothing seems to change so you think what’s the point  so you set aside your New Year, New Me grind and go back to being the same person you’ve been for the past 3 to 4 years. Any of that sounds familiar? Told you things will be juicy, I don’t disappoint!

Compiled are habits I know I should give up this year, they drag me down and I’m so over setting aside the New Year, New Me grind when things don’t go my ways:-

Overthinking

I need Jesus guys! I don’t think it’s humanly possible to overthink as much as I do, I overthink everything – oversleeping, what to wear, whether our dog likes me, I mean dude! I know it’s unhealthy and often tends to cage my emotions and multiply my fears. I’m learning to stop doing this and its hard, like real hard guys.

Fearing change

Oh! Don’t I hate change with passion.  I’m scared out of my mind every time I see an opportunity that requires me to make adjustments from my comfort zone. But you can’t grow without change, you know! So I rely on prayers when dealing with situations that require change.

Trying to please everyone

I never understood why people try to please everyone. Then the end of last year I had a light bulb moment when I realized there is a thin line between being helpful and trying to pleasing everyone. The thing is you always feel/think that you are being helpful when you go out of your way to make everyone else but you comfortable. I have learnt that some sacrifices aren’t worth it and I can’t continue doing this in 2019, it’s too damn expensive and frustrating!

Over To You …

Happy New Year guys, I’m back this year and I promised myself to be consistent in 2019. I hope you guys ushered the New Year well… What are some of things/ habits to give up in 2019? Share! Share!

Thank you for reading, New post every Monday and Thursday.

Lots of Love, Jade.

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16 thoughts on “HABITS I HAVE TO GIVE UP IN 2019”

  1. What a wonderful way to enter the New Year with a set of things to give up rather than unrealistic ‘to do’s’ – Great post! 🙂

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    1. Happy New Year!

      Haha! You have no idea how comforting it is to know we share the same habits but we have to adapt better habits in 2019 *sigh*. Thank you for reading, girl xx

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